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The psychology of saving: why it’s difficult and how to keep at it

Bertie Nel|Published
Explore the psychological factors that make saving money challenging and uncover actionable strategies to cultivate sustainable saving habits.

Explore the psychological factors that make saving money challenging and uncover actionable strategies to cultivate sustainable saving habits.

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Almost everyone agrees that saving money is a good idea. Yet for many South Africans, putting money aside at the end of the month feels impossible. Between rising living costs, supporting family members and dealing with unexpected expenses, saving is often the first financial goal to be sacrificed.

Even when we know what we should be doing, saving consistently remains one of the biggest financial challenges for many of us.

When our savings plans fall short, we often blame ourselves. We assume we lack discipline, don't earn enough, or simply aren't good at budgeting. While economic pressures are real, the reason saving is so difficult is often not just financial but psychological. Successful saving is less about willpower and more about understanding how we make financial decisions, overcoming the cognitive biases that work against us, and putting systems in place that make financial resilience easier to achieve.

The psychological barriers to saving

Traditional financial advice often assumes that once people have a clear plan and the right information, making good financial decisions is straightforward. In reality, human decision-making is influenced by a range of psychological habits and biases that can make it more difficult to stay focused on long-term financial goals.

One of the biggest challenges is that immediate rewards are valued over future benefits. From an evolutionary perspective, prioritising resources available today helped ensure survival. However, in today’s world, this tendency manifests as present bias, which can make it difficult to save consistently for goals that feel distant. Spending money on something that brings immediate satisfaction often feels more rewarding than putting it aside for a milestone that may be years, or even decades, away.

Lifestyle creep (or inflation) is another challenge. As income increases, our spending rises to match it. What once felt like a luxury quickly becomes a necessity. When a salary increase or bonus is immediately absorbed by upgraded accommodation, newer vehicles, or more expensive habits, the potential to increase savings is lost before it even touches the bank account.

Managing money in an uncertain economic environment is stressful. In the face of chronic financial stress, people’s ability to make forward-looking choices diminishes. This leads to decision fatigue, making it easier to succumb to impulse spending as a short-term emotional coping mechanism.

As traditional budgeting advice often ignores these behavioural realities, it frequently fails. A spreadsheet cannot fix a behavioural bias; only a change in habits and systems can.

Flipping the script to work with human nature

If willpower alone is not enough to override our psychological wiring, the solution is to create financial environments that work with our natural tendencies rather than against them. Instead of relying on daily, weekly or monthly decisions to save, we need to remove the decision-making process entirely.

The power of automation

The most effective way to counter present bias is to make saving effortless and spending difficult. By automating your savings contributions by transferring a set amount to a savings or investment vehicle immediately after payday – you remove the emotional friction of choosing to save. When money is moved before it can be spent, it effectively stops existing in your day-to-day budget, eliminating the temptation to misallocate it.

Harnessing the aggregation of marginal gains

The idea of saving a large portion of income can feel overwhelming when household budgets are tight. However, long-term financial success relies on small, consistent habits that compound over time.

Starting with a modest, manageable amount and increasing it incrementally by as little as 1% or 2% annually, or channelling a portion of a salary increase directly into savings, builds financial momentum without triggering a sense of deprivation.

The financial adviser as a behavioural coach

Overcoming cognitive biases and building sustainable habits is difficult to achieve in isolation. This is where the involvement of a financial adviser becomes key.

While technical expertise in investment structures, tax efficiency, and asset allocation remains fundamental, modern financial advice is increasingly grounded in behavioural coaching. An experienced adviser does not simply hand over a generic financial plan. They act as an objective partner who helps clients navigate their relationship with money, identify personal triggers for lifestyle creep and impulse spending, establish realistic goals aligned with your lifestyle, remove emotional decision making by implementing automated systems, and provide accountability to prevent panic during periods of market volatility. 

By providing an objective perspective, an adviser helps co-create a realistic strategy tailored to your specific circumstances, ensuring that your financial plan is sustainable enough to withstand the realities of daily life.

A sustainable, automatic habit

Achieving long-term financial security is neither an innate talent reserved for the highly disciplined, nor strictly a function of earning a high income. Rather, it is the result of understanding your behavioural blind spots and establishing structural guardrails to protect your future self from your present impulses.

By automating your savings, focusing on small and consistent incremental increases, and partnering with a professional adviser who understands the psychology of financial decision-making and how to navigate it for a better outcome, you can turn saving into a sustainable, automatic habit. The key is simply to begin, no matter how small the starting amount may seem.

* Nel is the head of financial planning and advice at Momentum

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